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Sunday, February 18, 2018

10 Things to Clean After the Flu/Sickies Invade Your House...

I'm pretty sure we have have had had one sickness or another in our house every day since the new year. Seriously. Its been bad.


I don’t know about you all, but I am always eager to scrub the crap out of my house after we have had been invaded with any illness. I hate to think of all the germs and grime lingering around the house. And does anyone else's house smell weird after the sickies hit? I swear my kids smell weird when they are sick. Between the runny noses, and constant coughing, the house was ready for a good clean!

Step 1: Gather Your Cleaning Supplies


DisinfectantsStore bought disinfectants or wipes  – Be sure to follow instructions on the bottle for directions as it will need to sit on the surface for at least 1-2 minutes to take effect. Wipes may be an easier choice as you just wipe it on and let it air dry.I personally use lysol wipes daily in our kitchen, I use them when cleaning the bathroom and use lysol spray around the whole house.

Microfiber ClothsI generally use my Grove Collaborative cloths when I am concerned about truly getting surfaces disinfected, but I know there are many other brands of cloths out there.  I fold up the cloths into smaller squares so I can switch to a clean square when I change areas and I like to have two cloths – one for scrubbing and one for wiping dry.

Step 2: Let the Sunshine In


Before you get started, try opening the windows up for some fresh air {even if it is just a crack!} and lift the blinds all the way up to let in some natural light.  If you have a diffuser, add some citrus essential oils for a crisp, fresh scent.

Step 3: Get Cleaning

Here my Top 10 Things to Clean After the Flu {or other illnesses}….

1. Bedding, blankets, and other “sick” clothes.



You tend to sweat a lot more when you are sick, so strip down your bedding, gather up any throw blankets from the sofa, and add in pajamas and any other “sick” clothes.  Be sure to check for and treat any stains prior to washing. Run everything on the hottest temperature that the material allows, but be sure not to overload your washing machine.  This, unfortunately, may take several loads!  Pillows can also be washed in the washing machine – just be sure to follow care instructions on the pillow and place two pillows in the load {on their own} to balance out the load.

2. Your Mattress



If there are any fluids that have made their way through the bedding and onto the mattress, be sure to give it a good clean. Even if it hasn’t been hit, it can do with a good airing out, so leave those sheets off all day if you can, and open the windows {if possible} and all of the blinds in the room to allow some fresh air and sunlight to hit it.  You can give it a light misting with the water/essential oil mix or fabreeze (which is what I use) but ensure that you are not saturating the mattress and allow it to dry completely before putting the bedding back on.

3. The Bathroom



The bathrooms will need a good cleaning and disinfecting after illness – especially the sink, faucets, toilet, and toilet handle. I use Method Antibac Bathroom Cleaner in all our bathrooms. Its a disinfectant but has a pleasant smell and gets the job done. I'll spray the toilet and sink with it as well, and let it sit for a few minutes.  Then use lysol wipes to clean and polish. 

4. Your Toothbrush



If you have a cheap, disposable toothbrush that you have used for a while, you may just want to throw it away and get a new one.  For newer or more expensive toothbrushes, add some hydrogen peroxide to a cup {enough to completely submerge the bristles} and allow to soak for 30 minutes.  Rinse thoroughly with water when you are done. OR my favorite option especially is we've had strep throat hit the house, I'll throw all the toothbrushes in the dishwasher and run them with a load of dishes.

5. Towels


Try to change towels daily during an illness and make sure that everyone has their own set.  You may want to try temporarily using paper towels instead of hand towels to make things a little easier and remember to encourage everyone to wash their hands frequently and thoroughly.  Once the illness is over, gather up all towels and wash at the highest possible temperature. 

6. Stuffed Animals and Toys



Stuffed animals can be tossed into the washing machine with the other bedding to give it a thorough cleaning or you can give them a good steaming if they are too delicate to run through the washing machine.  For hard surfaced toys, spray down with lysol and let air dry. If you have a baby who is a chewer, dip the rubber toys in bleach/water mixture, rinse with hot water and let air dry.  Alternatively, you can place them in the top rack of the dishwasher {place small items in a mesh laundry bag} and run them through a cycle.

7. Hard Frequently Touched Surfaces


Germs survive the longest on hard, non-porous surfaces so try to wipe these down frequently during an illness with a disinfectant.  These can include light switches, door knobs, railings, or any other surface that you frequently touch. Disinfecting wipes are probably the best bet because it can be hard to get a spray to sit on the surface long enough for disinfecting.

8. Electronic Devices



Wipe down all electronic devices that have been used such as phones, cell phones, computers, tablets, keyboards, and t.v. remotes using a disinfectant wipe or a slightly damp microfiber cloth using hydrogen peroxide.  Allow to air dry.

9. Waste Baskets


Your garbage cans have probably held a wide variety of nasty things during an illness so don’t forget to give them a good clean once you have emptied them.  You can either give it a good steam or spray with a disinfectant {leaving it for at least a few minutes} before scrubbing.  It is obviously helpful if you can remember to line them with a plastic bags to help contain any germs prior to anything being put in there.

10. The Kitchen


Try as much as possible to keep sick kiddos out of the kitchen.  This is the one time that I am happy to get the kids all of their food, snacks, drinks, and whatever else they desire!  While everyone is sick, wipe down the refrigerator door handle and any other frequently used cabinet/drawer handles daily with a disinfecting wipe. Once everyone is feeling better, I will do a deep clean with lysol wipes to our fridge, counters and sink.  I also spray the cupboard handles and drawer pulls with lysol spray and let them air dry.  

While the list may sound long, it really doesn’t take too long to run through  – other than waiting on all of the laundry!  Remember that if you are able to confine those that are sick to just a few spaces in the home {usually the bedroom, a bathroom, and the sofa!}, it will be a lot less to clean!

Friday, February 16, 2018

Who am I?

Who am I?
It’s a question that haunts me. Its the reason I've been so withdrawal from social media lately.
I’m a wife, I’m a mother. But who am I?
I was driving home the other day from grocery shopping and a song came on from high school.
A song I knew every word to. 
In that moment it became clear to me that, along with music, I’ve let go of many other habits and things I used to enjoy. 
It isn’t that I don’t love being a mother. I really really do. But so many parts about my life have changed, and I’m struggling to catch up with myself.
I became a mom 6 weeks before my 21st birthday so I didn't have too many years to find myself. But now that the baby is 3.5 years old and we are done having babies, I feel like its time to start finding myself again.
For the last 15.5 years my desires, motivations, and spontaneous urges have to be molded around my kids and husband. I have had to consider their needs equal to or above my own in the day to day.
This is good and fine and right.
But somewhere deep down in my soul, I feel lost. 
Just floating furture away but I can hear her tiny voice yelling ...
"DON'T FORGET ABOUT ME!"
I often feel isolated, alone, and bored even when the WHOLE family is home with me.

I've been digging deep down and pulling that lost girl out and finding what fills her soul and makes her feel whole again.



I will never have the life I had pre-motherhood, and that’s okay. Cause that girl was a mess.
But I have slowly started to find myself again.
I bought myself my favorite book series and have been re-reading it. Almost finished with it now and have a new series lined up, ready to read next.

I've also started crafting again. My hubs have even promised to buy me some bigger craft items I've been lusting over but haven't bought because of the price and the thoughts that "I'm being selfish".

My identity isn’t lost, it’s just been buried under kids school work, diapers and toys. 
It’s not about finding the old me, but coming to love the new one.
I wipe butts, I wipe tears. I give spankings, I give bear hugs, I help with homework.
And I just know—the old me would be so proud of who I've become.

This is a new season of my life. At first it terrified me, made me feel lost in this big world. But I'm embracing it and learning more about the me that's been hidden by the joys of motherhood and wife-hood.

Thursday, February 15, 2018

Full disclosure, I’m a hot-mess mom...

Ok, full disclosure: I’m a hot-mess mom with clean freak tendencies and I’m proud of it.

You’ve seen the saying “good moms have sticky floors, messy kitchens, laundry piles, dirty oven and happy kids” 🤔

So according to this saying I’m a bad mom because I keep a clean house?! WTF….like, for real.



I’m no where near perfect and my house isn’t ALWAYS clean. But I prefer a clean home so I do my best.

Do I think I’m a good mom? Yeah, I really do. 

Do I think those who don’t keep their house as clean as me are bad moms? Absolutely not. 

What I do know is we all have our standards and I honestly don’t care what you do as long as it's not considered child abuse.

My tendencies for cleanliness started when I was VERY young. In my bubble of shyness and anxiety that no one knew about, keeping my bedroom immaculately was really the only thing I could control in my bubble.


I don’t have it all together by any stretch of the imagination. I’m not so sure having it together and being a good mom are even synonymous. I don’t think it’s any reflection on, well, anything, in my opinion. 

So, I’m coming forward to say it to everyone...I’m a hot mess mom but I’m also a clean freak. 

And I kinda just want to embrace it and move on, cause I have more important issues on which to dwell.

I am that mom who makes sure most of the dishes at night are loaded into the dishwasher or washed up before I go to bed. Usually mine and hubbies drink cups from that evening get left in the sink until morning. 

I’m that mom who stays on top of switching the loads from the washer to the dryer to the laundry basket. Do I fold them all right away? No, I usually get them done and put away the following day but that’s because it can take 4 hours for a load to dry in our dry. (Gotta love UK dryers.) 

I’m that mom who signs forms the day I get them and returns them the next day. Because I know if they sit on the counter they will disappear and then I’ll lose my mind trying to find them. 

I’m that mom who never misses a birthday party or an appointment because I put everything into my personal calendar and then on our family calendar.

I’m that mom who never forgets to RSVP because I know they are important and I will RSVP even if we can’t attend. 

I AM that mom who screams all morning to get the kids out of the house because one child (cough, cough…Logan) is ALWAYS slower then a turtle.

I AM that mom who lets her kids have endless screen time sometimes (ok, more than sometimes) just because I don’t feel like fighting and need to get a few things done.

I AM also that mom who likes to go to bed with a clean house because I like to wake up and not be stressed out.

I AM also that mom whose kids are safe.

I AM also that mom whose kids are, for the most part, happy.

I AM also that mom whose home has lots of love and laughter.

I AM also that mom who cheers on her kids and is their biggest fan.

I AM also that mom who is constantly working to show her kids they are accepted no matter what.

I AM also that mom who loves being a mom.

I’m a clean freak hot-mess mom.


SO MY FELLOW MOMS,
IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW CLEAN YOUR HOUSE, 
OR HOW ORGANIZED YOU ARE.

I WON'T JUDGE YOU SO PLEASE DON'T JUDGE ME.

AS LONG AS YOUR KID(S) ARE HAPPY & HEALTHY,
THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS.

AND REMEMBER, YOU ARE DAMN FABULOUS!!!!


I'm back....

I'm back bitches!

Haha! Sorry I couldn't help myself. Ya'll aren't bitches. I love and missed you all. I'm so happy to back to this and can't wait to get back spilled my thoughts, tips 
and random chatter.

So here's the low down. 

I had to take some time off to figure out what I wanted to do with this blog and my vlog. 
Like what I wanted to babble about.

So I've decided to come back to my blog because I love writing. I dabbled with vlogging a while back and I really enjoyed it too but I don't want to make it a daily thing.

So I'm going to mix and match it all up here. 

YAY!!!




Monday, December 25, 2017

Vlogmas 2017!

Hellooo!

Vlogmas. 

What the hell is Vlogmas?!

Let me explain all the weird words for you if you haven’t entered this crazy world yet.

A person who writes something like I do is a Blogger who writes a Blog.

A person who records their thoughts on video, is a Vlogger and they record Vlogs – Video Blogs.

We all know what Christmas is and so as if there isn’t enough to do in the run up to Christmas, some of us join ‘Blogmas’, where you Blog every day in December until Christmas Day or even beyond.

I’ve decided to join ‘Vlogmas’ where, as you’ve probably guessed, the goal is to Vlog everyday on your blogging youtube channel.

I'm not gonna lie this Christmas wasn't very interesting since my husband is deployed but its a start. HA!

Take a look and please subscribe to my channel, I’d love to share our month with you. Baking, decorating and crafting all things Christmas.




Tuesday, September 26, 2017

The passive aggressive "f**k you"...

I've noticed a real trend on the internet lately. The passive aggressive "fuck you". We've all been a victim of it and I'm betting we've all dropped one or two of our own on a douchebag here or there. Shit I'm the queen of doing it and I honestly don't care. HA!

I've rounded up some of my favorites, but I know I missed a bunch, so leave yours in the comments!
1. Just Sayin' 

This is the most abused fuck you phrase out there. By adding these two words to the end of any sentence, it's suddenly turned into a "joke." 
It's meant to take any phrase, no matter how horrible, and turn it kind. But you can't say "Your kids are disgusting and ugly, just sayin'" or "You're an idiot, just sayin'" and think that's OK. My standard response to this one will forever be, "I mean I'm just sayin.'"
2. Smiley and/or Winky Face

I have been known to use the winky face to express sarcasm. To me that is the only way to show tone of voice until a sarcasm font is invented. 
I only use the sarcasm winky face on people who I knew well and who understand my sense of humor. I would never say to a perfect stranger "You're a terrible mother. ;)" And yet it happens. Every single day.
3. It's Just My Opinion 

This one and It's just my HUMBLE opinion are two really good ones. There is nothing humble about your opinion. If you were humble you would keep your asshole opinion to yourself.
4. I'm Not Trying to Offend You, But...

Then just stop right there, because I'm already offended, Namaste.
5. Namaste

I'm seeing this one crop up more and more. It's like the hippie crowd wants their own fuck you. They will cut you for not eating your vaxing your child or not using reusable toilet paper and then at the end, they sign off with "Namaste."
6. Bless Your Heart (my favorite I might add) 

Only people with a southern accent can get away with this one. When the rest of us say it, it sounds like "Your mom's a whore."
7. Don't Take This Personally, But...

As opposed to not taking it personally? When you say, "Sally, don't take this personally, but let's just say I would never do it the way you did." You just told Sally she sucks on so many different levels you don't even have the time to educate her.
8. Whatever 

This is the fuck you from the 13-year-old crowd that has slowly worked its way into adult vocabulary too. It's always used when the speaker has run out of anything intelligent to say or realizes he/she is going to lose the argument. It used to be "agree to disagree," but apparently that was too many words and it has since been shortened to the charming "Whatevs."
So there you have it. Eight other ways to say fuck you to someone on the internet. 

Friday, September 22, 2017

Things you might not know about entrepreneurship...

1. Entrepreneurship is NOT a get-rich-quick-scheme.

Just to put it into perspective, approximately nine out of ten start up businesses FAIL. 


Yes, you heard that right...they FAIL. 

So what’s the lesson here exactly? No one told me that in order to make being an entrepreneur your bread and butter, you have to WORK HARD for it.

Now this one sounds like a no-brainer, but I say this because nowadays people are selling mystical masterclasses saying quit your 9 to 5 and make six figures tomorrow. Keeping it real folks, that's not how this works...that's not how any of this works.

I’m going to be honest with you, when I first wanted to seriously dive into working for myself I thought alright, cool I’ve started now I’m going to make money. Nope, not how it works at all.

Now as a somewhat seasoned entrepreneur, I see more and more new entrepreneurs making the same mistake themselves. Some even asking me how to monetize when they haven't invested or put 100% effort into their business yet. 

While there's no timeline on when you can make money from being an entrepreneur, you DO have to work towards making your business a full time form of employment just like you’d do with any other job. So long hours in advance, creating QUALITY content, scheduling social media posts out, doing market research to understand what others are doing to get sponsorship opportunities, doing research on your target audience so you can better appeal to them, and so much more goes into making those coins.

So to everyone who thinks this lifestyle is cake, I have this to say:

AS AN ENTREPRENEUR YOUR WORK IS NEVER DONE! 

There is ALWAYS something to do to keep your business at the head of the game and current with new technological advances, current events, updates, etc.. So if you haven’t been told yet, let me be the first to let you know that you have to put in work to see those results. Finding the perfect balance of researching, scheduling and continuing to produce quality will get you to the top.

2. It's Important to Realize What You Need to Succeed

Working towards your business taking off takes time, but it also takes money. No one told me that becoming an entrepreneur is expensive. You always see those “start a business with no money”, but realistically it takes money to make money.


I know there’s tons of ways to cut costs on certain things, but there are some unavoidable costs that you just have to pay out. For example, your domain for your website....I recommend GoDaddy.com because it's quick, cheap, easy and will give your website a more professional feel! Can you skip out on a website, sure, you can do whatever you want. But honestly you are going to see a difference the more "professional" you make your business.

So you’re working, you’re investing, what else is there? You’re doing everything you can to make your dreams a reality so what other secrets to success could there be? Well, there’s this notion that I believe is the most important for all up and coming entrepreneurs yet people hardly ever say it out loud...

3. No One Ever Told Me That My Journey Will Never Be Exactly Like Someone Else's

There are people out there, (myself included), who have blog posts and manuals and the whole nine yards showing you how to be successful in the world of entrepreneurship but that doesn’t mean it’s right for your journey.

There may be components of my journey that you can apply to your own, but ultimately what I go through may be completely different from you and that is OKAY. Hell, you may just become a millionaire by not even lifting a finger so if that’s the path you're destined to take #YOUDOYOUBOO


The sooner we all realize that there’s general information out there on entrepreneurship, but there’s exceptions and adaptations based on the specifics of your business the better. This is extremely helpful in understanding how to know what pieces of information you need to apply to yourself and what can be left behind.

There's tons to consume out there, but not every software, upgrade, trend or product needs to be implemented into what you have going on. And if you're just starting our or about to start, realizing that before going into the game will definitely save yourself a lot of those “why are they successful and I’m not” moments.

That's a wrap! 

I support all of you in all of your entrepreneurial endeavors as there’s room at the top for each and every one of us. Keep on keeping on and I hope my insights have made some sort of positive impact on your journey.